Deuteronomy 4:
9 Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them. 10 Remember the day you stood before the Lord your God at Horeb, when he said to me, “Assemble the people before me to hear my words so that they may learn to revere me as long as they live in the land and may teach them to their children.”
Here is the true failure of the Israelites and, I believe, many of today's Christians. Many of us make life choices so that our children "Won't have to go through what I did." We remember times when our families struggled to put food on the table, or pay the car insurance, or get money to go on that school trip. We choose our path to make life better for our children. This is a good thing, but it is a little short sighted.
Mark 8:36
What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?
Yet, I hear parents "brag" about their children. "I never tried to influence little Jimmy spiritually. I prefer that he comes to his own understanding." To me, this makes NO SENSE!!! I am a math teacher and as such many times I look to numbers for answers. I would never let my son or daughter decide whether they believed that 1 + 1 = 2. I would never let them come to their own understanding. Some things are true, and some things are not. I teach my children what is true and I discourage them from believing what is false.
Look, if religion to you is only a way of life, and a moral code, something to make you feel good about yourself, then go ahead let your kids "find their way". If however, it is about the search for TRUTH, real life changing truth, then how could you let them go their own way? Imagine you lived in a cabin with two doors. Outside one door was a meadow with fruit trees and sunshine and lollipops. Outside the other was a chasm of doom. Your child has to choose a door and walk through it blindfolded. If you know which door leads to the beautiful meadow, do you tell them?
So, here is what I am doing and what I intend to do:
- Live my "religion" every day in a way that my kids can see that it is real to me
- Teach my children the truth about Christ
- Tell my children stories about how God intervened in my life and how he intervened in theirs
- Encourage them to follow a path that is Godly
Children are the greatest gift that we were given. We have to keep them safe and show them the way. The world doesn't leave anything to chance. Anyone that has an agenda to promote goes to the children first. It is important for us to equip them to fight the lies that are out there, and not leave them wandering blind in a world that will take advantage of an empty mind.